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How to Talk to Aging Parents About Senior Living

There comes a point in most of our lives when we start to see the elders in our lives slipping a bit. Often, it is something subtle, like not being able to keep up with the family as well as they once could. Other times, we may start to worry about home and lawn maintenance and other inconveniences becoming too much work.

Having a conversation with your parents, or any senior in your life, about moving into senior living can be a challenge. You don’t want to come off as rude or disrespectful, but you also care deeply about them and want them to be in a place where they are safe.

At The Farms at Bailey Station, we understand how emotional these conversations can be. But with compassion, timing, and the right information, talking to your parents about senior living can become one of the most loving and supportive conversations you’ve ever had.

Start With Empathy, Not a Plan

This isn’t about convincing anyone of anything. It’s about listening first. When it comes to the important discussions to have with elderly parents, especially around senior living, the tone of the conversation matters more than the agenda. If your parents have always prided themselves on their independence, the idea of change, especially one that sounds like giving something up, can feel like a loss. That’s why the tone of the conversation matters more than the agenda.

A few tips from those of us who’ve done this before:

  • Choose the Right Moment: Avoid holidays or emotionally charged times. A calm afternoon walk or quiet coffee visit works best.
  • Ask, Don’t Tell: Try, “Have you thought about what you want your future to look like?” rather than “You need to move.”
  • Share, Then Listen: Talk about your feelings and not their shortcomings. “I worry about you being alone at night” goes much further than pointing out their missed medications.
  • Expect More Than One Conversation: This is a journey, not a single decision.

Shift the Focus From Change to Choice

Senior living today looks different from what it used to be. Whether you’re exploring assisted living options or considering independent living in Collierville, TN, it’s all about finding the right fit for this chapter of life.

At The Farms at Bailey Station, we offer a wide range of living styles to meet people right where they are. That includes:

In other words: It’s not about leaving something behind, it’s about gaining peace of mind, community, and freedom from the burdens of homeownership and “what if” worries.

Highlight the Benefits for Everyone

It can help to frame this not as a loss of independence but simply a new kind of freedom. Senior living communities like The Farms are full of people who chose a simpler life with more opportunity to enjoy what matters most.

For your parents, that can mean:

  • No more household maintenance or surprise repairs
  • Daily opportunities to connect, learn, and explore
  • On-site wellness and dining options to make life easier and richer

For you, it can mean:

  • Fewer sleepless nights worrying about their safety
  • Confidence in knowing help is nearby, if ever needed
  • More time to just enjoy being together

When You’re Ready, We’re Here

If your conversation leads to curiosity, invite your parents to explore the options at The Farms together. Walk the grounds, and share a meal. Meet the people who might become new friends. The most important thing is that everyone feels heard, and that your family makes the decision together, with love and respect.

Here at The Farms at Bailey Station, we understand: these conversations aren’t easy. But they can open the door to a life that’s even more fulfilling than the one your parents imagined.

And isn’t that something worth talking about? We’ll be waiting to welcome you. Schedule your tour today.

What Is the Difference Between Assisted Living and Independent Living?

At some point, nearly every family has the conversation. It might happen over sweet tea on the front porch or maybe during a quiet moment after Sunday supper. It’s the moment when someone gently asks, “Would life feel easier with a little more support?”

For many, that question opens the door to a world of new possibilities, and just as many new questions. Chief among them: What’s the difference between independent living and assisted living? And perhaps more importantly, how do you know which one is right for you or your loved one?

Let’s take a closer look with the understanding that, just like the changing seasons, your needs may evolve over time. At The Farms at Bailey Station, we’re here for all of it.

Independent Living: Freedom With Every Comfort

Independent living in Collierville, TN, is all about choice. It’s for those who are still active and able to care for themselves but want to leave behind the chores, maintenance, and what-if worries. Here, you’ll find gracious homes and garden cottages designed to delight, along with amenities that make every day feel like a new chapter in your favorite story.

At The Farms, the benefits of independent living include:

  • Home Without the Hassle: Say goodbye to leaky faucet woes and lawn care. With beautifully maintained residences and attentive staff, you can spend less time on chores and more time enjoying the life you’ve worked hard for. The best part: we have multiple living options, from one-bedroom apartments to larger 2000 sqft. apartments with a full master bedroom suite.
  • Dining, Your Way: Whether you’re craving rustic Italian, a perfectly grilled steak, or a lighter option, every meal at The Farms is a fresh, flavorful experience crafted by skilled chefs who make dining something to truly savor.
  • Wellness and Activity: From yoga on the patio and high-tech fitness equipment to expert-led programs and even massage therapy, our Athletic Club is designed to keep you feeling your best both inside and out.
  • Community and Connection: Whether you’re gathering around a firepit, joining a game of cornhole, or simply chatting with a neighbor over coffee, life here is rich with laughter, friendship, and shared moments that make every day more meaningful.

This is your season to thrive not just in comfort, but in company.

Assisted Living: A Helping Hand That Honors Your Independence

Assisted living offers support with daily tasks, things like dressing, bathing, or managing medications, while still encouraging autonomy. It’s not about giving up independence; it’s about gaining confidence.

At The Farms’ Jordan River Health Campus, assisted living is delivered with a personal touch. 

The benefits of assisted living include:

  • Personalized Support With Dignity: Our experienced team works closely with each resident to develop an individual service plan, ensuring the right level of assistance — never more than needed, and never less than deserved.
  • Private Residences Designed for Comfort and Beauty: From walk-in closets to full-size refrigerators and custom interiors, our studio, one-, and two-bedroom apartments feel more like home than traditional assisted living communities.
  • Connection Around Every Corner: Whether it’s a lively movie night, catching the game with friends, or relaxing in a sun-filled lounge, our welcoming common spaces make it easy to stay social, active, and engaged.
  • Care That Adapts With You: As needs change, residents have seamless access to higher levels of care through the Jordan River Health Campus, so you can stay focused on what matters most: living well.

Most importantly, we see each resident as a whole person, not a checklist. Every member of our care team knows that dignity isn’t just preserved here, it’s celebrated.

The Beauty of Choice and the Peace of Mind of Flexible Senior Living Options

Perhaps the greatest gift The Farms offers is the freedom to transition gracefully between levels of care, all within the same vibrant community. You won’t have to uproot your life to get the support you need. Whether you’re moving from Independent Living to Assisted Living, or simply adjusting services as life unfolds, we’re here to walk alongside you.

Because life at The Farms isn’t about limitations, it’s about living fully wherever you are on your journey.

The choice between independent living and assisted living isn’t always easy, but it can be empowering. At The Farms at Bailey Station, we believe in thoughtful transitions, compassionate care, and the kind of Southern hospitality that makes every guest feel like family.

If you’re weighing your options, we invite you to come see the difference for yourself. One visit, and you’ll understand this isn’t just a place to live. It’s a place to truly belong.

Family-Friendly Summer Activities in Collierville, TN

Older couple eating ice cream on a park bench
Senior couple eating an ice cream on a bench

There’s something about summer that calls for slowing down, soaking up the sunshine, and spending time with the people who matter most. If you’re planning to visit a loved one at The Farms at Bailey Station, you’re in luck! There’s no shortage of things to do in Collierville, TN, especially if you’re hoping to turn a visit into a memorable multigenerational experience.

From charming parks and lively events to sweet treats and scenic strolls, this guide highlights the best family things to do in Collierville, TN, with something special for every age group.

Enjoy a Scenic Stroll at The Farms

You don’t have to leave campus to start the fun. The Farms at Bailey Station offers a walkable, picturesque setting filled with lakeside paths, vibrant gardens, and tranquil green spaces. Take a stroll around Lake Christie, unwind in the rose garden, or enjoy a casual meal in one of our inviting dining venues.

You can explore more of our campus lifestyle and see what makes The Farms a destination of its own.

Explore Historic Collierville Town Square

Collierville Town Square is as delightful as it is historic. Voted “America’s Best Main Street” by Parade magazine, this bustling area features shops, eateries, the train depot museum, and often live music or family-friendly events. It’s one of the top fun things to do in Collierville and just minutes from The Farms. You’ll find even more ideas in our Collierville area attractions guide.

Picnic and Play at Local Parks

When it comes to free things to do in Collierville, TN, local parks are a top pick. Hinton Park has open fields and a fun playground, while WC Johnson Park features a splash pad, walking trails, and scenic wetlands. Bring lunch, a blanket, and let the kids roam while you relax in the shade.

Summer Days Call for Something Nostalgic

Treat the family to a classic Southern meal at The Silver Caboose, a beloved spot right in the heart of Collierville’s historic square. With its charming, old-fashioned atmosphere and menu full of comfort-food favorites (think meatloaf, fried chicken, and homemade pies) it’s the kind of place where stories get shared over a warm plate. A visit here turns lunch into a memory worth savoring.

Unwind and Make Memories at The Farms

After a fun-filled day exploring all that Collierville has to offer, return to the welcoming atmosphere of The Farms. Evening performances bring neighbors together, cozy nooks offer space to chat or read, and scenic overlooks provide the perfect place to catch the sunset. Whether you’re staying for the evening or winding down after a family outing, it’s a peaceful, enriching place to reflect, recharge, and savor the moment.

Plan Your Summer Visit Today

Whether this is your first time exploring Collierville or you’re coming back to visit a loved one, the area is full of opportunities to create lasting memories. With plenty of free things to do in Collierville, TN and exciting attractions just minutes from The Farms, summer is the ideal season to reconnect and experience everything this vibrant community has to offer.

See firsthand what makes The Farms at Bailey Station a special place to live and visit. Schedule your personal tour today and start imagining your next chapter here.

Barbara Sepich Named Executive Director

We are pleased to announce Barbara Sepich has joined The Farms at Bailey Station team as Executive Director.

Barbara brings over 30 years’ experience in senior living operations and executive leadership to The Farms at Bailey Station. Prior to joining us, she was Executive Director at The Cypress at Hilton Head, a 100-acre Life Plan Community in South Carolina. Additionally, she held the position of CEO/President of WRC Senior Services in Brookville, Pennsylvania, for 7 years.

Barbara holds a bachelor’s in healthcare administration from Penn State University and a master’s in public management from Carnegie Mellon University.

In her spare time, Barbara enjoys an occasional motorcycle ride and traveling and spending time outdoors with her husband, Dennis.

Please join us in giving Barbara a warm welcome!

Michelle Vincent Featured in the Memphis Business Journal

Michelle Vincent
Executive Vice President
Retirement Companies of America

Michelle Vincent, Executive Vice President for Retirement Companies of America, who manages The Farms at Bailey Station, was invited to share her thoughts in the Memphis Business Journal as an expert in senior living. From new approaches in wellness, to resident expectations for dining, to the role AI and technology are playing in healthcare today, there’s a wealth of information in this article.

Thank you for voting us Best Senior Living for the third year in a row!

We are so excited to have been voted “Best Senior Living” in the 2023 Readers’ Choice Awards by the readers of the Collierville Herald-Independent for the third year in a row! We are so humbled and honored to be recognized again for bringing the best in senior living to the town of Collierville. A big “thank you” to the readers and for the unwavering support of those near and dear to us—especially our residents! 

Jesse Sias Named Executive Director of The Farms at Bailey Station

COLLIERVILLE, Tenn. (August 2, 2023) – Jesse Sias, an experienced leader in senior living management, has been named executive director of The Farms at Bailey Station.

Sias joins The Farms as the community continues its transition from a start-up vision to a vibrant benchmark for senior living and health services.

“The Farms is truly a unique oasis for seniors building their future with security and peace of mind,” Sias said. “I’m honored to lead a team dedicated to the health and happiness of our residents and their guests.”

Sias brings to The Farms 25 years of experience in senior living operations and management. Prior to joining The Farms, Sias held leadership roles at non-profit continuing care retirement communities  in Texas and Indiana.

He has a bachelor’s degree in health care administration from the University of Houston and is a licensed Nursing Home Administrator.

The Farms at Bailey Station features 63 custom garden homes, including 22 townhomes and 41 detached lots, and 176 independent-living apartments complemented by a clubhouse featuring five distinct dining venues, extensive gardens, fountains, outdoor kitchen with dining, built-in firepits, croquet and bocce courts, dog park, and an event lawn with stage.

The Farms at Bailey Station, a LifeCare retirement community, includes the Jordan River Health Campus, offering assisted living, memory support, skilled nursing, rehab and respite care to both Farms residents and the public.

To learn more about The Farms at Bailey Station and Jordan River Health Campus, please visit https://thefarmsatbaileystation.com/contact.

Look how far we’ve come!

What was once a site filled with trucks, steel, and concrete, has now become an oasis for seniors building their future with security and peace of mind. In just a short period of time, The Farms at Bailey Station Senior Living Community and its Jordan River Health Campus is setting the benchmark for unsurpassed senior living and expert health services in Collierville, Tennessee, and beyond.

Take a look at the video above to see how far we’ve come. Then take another look to see just how much you gain by making The Farms the place you call home.

Comfort. Care. Security. Just ask Jack and Mary Lois.

When Jack and Mary Lois Thomas moved to their independent living neighborhood at The Farms at Bailey Station retirement community in March 2022, they felt the warm welcome of so many new neighbors. In fact, there’s one welcoming neighbor they’ll never forget—the Jordan River Health Campus. Located right on The Farms campus, Jordan River made all the difference in Jack’s life after he unexpectedly fell ill not long after moving to The Farms. It was through the quality care he received at Jordan River that he was able to return to his independent living neighborhood.

“By choosing to move to The Farms and having a plan in place for the future, not only did we experience firsthand the security of being taken care of, but also the comfort of that care being available literally next door,” says Mary Lois. She added, “It just reinforces our thinking all along—that we don’t want to have our family or kids take care of us—and be a burden to them.”

To hear more from Jack and Mary Lois, watch their video.

The Farms at Bailey Station

3300 S. Houston Levee Rd.
Collierville, TN 38017

General Information

(901) 779-8200

Information about Living at The Farms

(901) 328-4850

Marketing Office Hours

Monday - Friday from 8:30 - 5:30 and Saturday by appointment

Jordan River Health Campus at The Farms at Bailey Station

10001 Crooked Creek Rd.
Collierville, TN 38017

General Information

(901) 779-8230

Information about our Levels of Care at Jordan River Health Campus

(901) 779-8203

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The Farms at Bailey Station, a sister community to Kirby Pines, is part of the family of LifeCare Communities of Retirement Companies of America. For more information, visit retirementcompanies.com